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INTRODUCTION

THE
IDEA
Judging from the massive production of erotic imagery in photo magazines,
films, television, video and internet - not to mention the universal
practice of 'girl-watching' - voyeurism and exhibitionism must occupy
man's mind, if possible, far more than sexual commerce in the strict
sense of the word.
That does not prevent people from invariably feeling embarrassed when
the subject is mentioned. Even researchers, who otherwise do not refrain
from exploring even the most remote corners of the human psyche,
all too eagerly evade the study of the most practiced erotic pastime.
I increasingly had the impression of entering an unexplored territory.
It was extremely difficult to make a somewhat substantial bibliography.
Most contributions are part of books on more encompassing subjects. The
few books exclusively devoted to the subject are either purely
(art)historical (Clark, Linda
Williams) or moralising (feministic literature). As a rule, they
restrict themselves either to the erotic eye (scopic drive), or to the
(representation of) the nude that exhibits itself (phanic drive). Especially psychoanalytic
literature excels in its silence on the subject. In the index of Freuds
collected works,
there are
a mere five references to 'voyeurism'. Also the
image is utterly neglected: in the ‘Interpretation of Dreams’ dream,
images - that are anyway merely
accessible through verbal rendering - are
reduced to 'dream- thoughts'. Apparently, as
a true
heir of Moses, Freud was far more
interested in the ear that listens than in the eye that indulges in
relishing the (nude in) the image.
Reasons enough to write a book on the phanic and the scopic drive.
THE ILLUSTRATIONS
Whoever wants to write a book on the erotic eye and its nude cannot
restrict himself to the written word: there is an abundance of often
very beautiful images. But the existence of something like copyright is
responsible for the fact that we cannot show the best examples from
sculpture, painting, prints and photos. In this Internet version, we had
to content ourselves with the photos of living photographers who gave us
the permission to use their work. But this restriction is not the
main
responsible for the sometimes poor
quality of the images in my
selection: if we could have chosen freely, the number of high quality
pictures would certainly have increased, but that would only have
emphasized the surprisingly poor
quality of the overall production of erotic imagery. Precisely the
argument of this book will explain why.
Within these limits, the choice of the photos has been made according to
two criteria. Our first concern has been to find a fitting illustration
for each topic in the text. Only when we had the choice, we could select
according to aesthetic criteria. For some topics, we could not find any
fitting illustration at all, because it either simply does not exist, or
because we could not find an image with the required aesthetic
standards. That explains why high
quality pictures often go side by side with minor works. It is our intention to gradually raise the artistic level,
so that 'the erotic eye and its nude'
will eventually
become a kind of touchstone for erotic photography.
Suggestions are always welcome.
THE
THEORY
In this book, an entirely new theory is presented on what is
traditionally
referred to as 'voyeurism' and 'exhibitionism'. In our opinion, these
isolated
'partial drives' are merely two particular forms of the more
encompassing scopic and phanic drives that form in principle an
undivided unity: both drives elicit each other. We will describe the manifold
manifestations of the scopic and the phanic drive and explain how and
why they develop. This theory on the scopic and the phanic drive is
situated within the broader frame of a general theory on love, as it is
unfolded in 'The ecstasies of Eros'.
In 'The erotic eye and its nude' I only present my own view on the
subject. Discussion with other authors have deliberately been omitted.
What is thus
gained
in clarity and accessibility, will be lost in academic
charms. More than often, an unusual thesis will be advanced without
further comment, while, conversely, seemingly obvious points of view are
in fact
rather controversial. But all these disadvantages do not measure up to
the advantages: a concise and clear text. Other theories will be dealt
with elsewhere on this site (section 'reviews').
The text of the book is written in a rather neutral tone. It was my
intention to have the images play an important role in conveying the
more 'emotional' freight of what is meant. No doubt, the eloquence of the images
will seduce the reader to a cursory reading of the book. Needless to say
that a close reading
of the text is necessary to follow the development of the
argument.
Chapter I of 'The erotic eye and its nude'
object de désir 2
THE EROTIC EYE AND THE EROTIC SENSES
see also:
'the ecstasies of eros'
In this first chapter we want to dwell on the erotic eye itself.
Fascinated as it is, it cannot refrain from looking at the ever changing
– and often surprising – shapes in which the erotic nude appears. Why
can lovers not stop looking at each other's body, hearing each other's
voice, smelling each other's odours, feeling each other's skin, let
alone enjoying each other's orgasm? Why are there so many erotic senses
and how do they relate to each other?
(1) LOVE AND ENDURING
PERCEPTION
‘Wo du hingehst, da will auch ich sein’.
B. Brecht, Dreigroschenoper.
The evolution of erotic senses is a side effect of the evolution of
love.
The oldest form of love is love between parents and children. In order
to secure the well-being of their offspring, it is important that
parents and children are staying nearby each other, even when there are
no immediate needs to be met. That is why they want to permanently
perceive each other. This need is the primeval form and the kernel of
love: loving partners are always looking for each other and trying to
stay in each other's vicinity.
Parental love is extended to sexual love when male and female begin to
cooperate in view of the bringing up of their offspring. To be able to
help each other always and everywhere, also parents develop a need to
always remain within each other's reach.
To satisfy this need, the ‘erotic appearance’ is developed which will
interest us in the following chapters. The erotic appearance of humans
consists of specific patterns for the diverse senses: form and colour,
sound, odours, softness and warmth, orgasm. In contrast with the
perception of needs and obstacles, which we want to get rid of as soon
as possible, the perception of the erotic appearance is pleasurable.
Rather than avoiding it, we are looking for it. And when we have found
it, we want to enjoy it forever.
(2) THE EROTIC SENSES
Erotically sensitive senses develop through the transformation of
existing senses or organs. Touch is predisposed for such adaptation: to
be present is in the first place literally being nearby somebody. With
humans, the naked skin as a whole is erotically sensitive, and parts of
it are even more sensitive: the hands that touch, the lips that kiss and
the sexual organs that penetrate and contain.
But lovers cannot always remain in physical contact with each other. To
gratify their needs and to avoid dangers, they have to give up bodily
contact. When all their needs are met and all the dangers have
disappeared, they seek each other's presence again. In the meantime,
they try to stay in contact at a distance. That is why also and foremost
the distance senses – eye, ear and nose – are sensitive to the
perception of an erotic appearance that can be perceived from a
distance.
Since erotic congress wants to endure, two problems arise: how to
warrant normal interaction with the outer world, and how to enable
sleep? The most appropriate way to solve the first problem, is to
suspend the need for erotic commerce until interaction with the outer
world is no longer necessary. And falling asleep is made possible
through the building in of a climax – the orgasm – which temporarily
suspends the need for erotic commerce. After sleep, the need to perceive
one’s partner and to interact with the world resurges. The whole cycle
starts all over again.
(3) THE TENSION
BETWEEN THE EYE AND THE GENITALS
As soon as interaction with the outer world is no longer necessary, the
visual and auditory contact with the loved one is taken over by touching
and embracing. When touch takes over and the lovers proceed to kissing
and fondling, the eyes tend to close. When the genitals take over, touch
gives up its contact with the skin: hands and arms are now merely
holding and sustaining the loved body. One after another, the erotic
senses give way to pure genital sensation. While in the beginning all
the erotic pleasure was concentrated in the eye, the whole visual world
now implodes in the orgasmic flight.
It is worth while to describe this implosion in some more detail. The
everyday, non-erotic world is structured around the perceiving being,
from which space radiates in its three dimensions. From within that
centre, the eye scans space perspectivally.
The structure of erotic space is totally different. As soon as we are
dealing with visual beauty, we are still moving in a visual space, but,
provided our erotic interaction is reciprocal, that space is no longer
centrifugal but symmetrical: it consists of two mirroring halves.
Sounds further corrodes the already symmetrically restructured space.
Certainly, the voice still seems to emanate from a given point in space,
but the space in which it resounds is no longer empty. It seems
permeated with sound. In such ethereal space, the body no longer is a
volume with a surface, rather a vibrating aura that emanates from a
kernel. When the lovers echo each other, also this space becomes
symmetrical. And when the voices are vibrating in consonance with each
other or are merging in unison, the two symmetrical halves seem to
permeate each other.
Space dissolves still further when we switch over to odour. Just like
sound, odour emanates from the loved body, but the olfactory erotic
appearance is no longer situated on a fixed point in space: rather is it
an enchanting cloud that comes to envelope us and penetrates our body.
When switching over to touching, space is further reduced to a
one-dimensional ‘against’. No longer are we moving between discrete
objects, we are leaning against each other, embracing each other. To the
eye, the ear and the nose, perceiving and perceived being are discrete.
In the world of touch they begin to merge: feeling skin feels feeling
skin. The last
remnant of space - a dark awareness of something unattainable behind the
skin - totally disappears when the radiation of warmth invades our body.
Symmetry begins to dissolve into identity.
The involution is
completed when the world finally implodes in the
orgasmic experience. Seen from without and interpreted in terms of the
three-dimensional space of the eye, the penis is filling the vagina that
envelopes it, and their mutual embrace elicits the synchronised
contractions of orgasm. To the inner sensation of the genitals
themselves, this comes down to an implosion of the whole world into one
single feeling sensation. Since there is no longer any feeling of
confinement within the skin, the orgasmic feeling seems to permeate an
infinite ethereal space. In that sense the idea of melting and
dissolution – summoned up again and again to describe orgasm – is not a
metaphor at all. It is founded in the process of the gradual sensitory
reduction that we come to describe.
There are no illustrations of this sensation: it is simply not visible
and situated in a dimensionless world at that. Which did not prevent
artists from trying to visualise it nevertheless. They
have a breeze
gently blow around the lovers or have some radiance permeate their
bodies. Wind nor radiance have a surface, and radiance knows no
obstacles. Another method is letting a kind of streaming movement
pervade the bodies or their draperies. Such are the methods to translate
the dimensionless orgasmic feeling in a world where the bodies find
themselves separated in visual space.
Only in music is it possible to render the orgasmic feeling in a more
appropriate way. In contrast with visual bodies, audible bodies easily
merge in consonance (Isoldes Liebestod, Wagner). Music is the medium par
excellence for the representation of orgasmic merger - and of orgiastic
communality as well.
Ordinary needs soon drag us back in the real world. There, we are soon
confined again within the limits of our bodies from which we look at the
objects surrounding us from all sides. Only in such world applies what
Lacan (1981:72) after Merleau-Ponty asserts: that the things are gazing
at us. Such experience is a transfer in non-erotic space of the way in
which we experience erotic space, a space where not things are gazing at
us, but lovers at each other.
Not seldom do we seek solace for the depressing experience that we have
now become bodies again, orienting themselves in a perspectival space.
We find it in the transparency of fire, in the abyss of the oceans or
the fathomless depths of the skies.
Such ethereal worlds, in which we all too eagerly free ourselves from
our bodies and the real world, derive their charms from a transfer of
the orgasmic feeling in the three-dimensional space of the visible
world.
(4) THE PERVERSE
MOVE
During the centripetal move from hearing, over seeing and smelling, to
touching and orgasm, the intensity of the erotic feeling is gradually
increasing. The erotic sensitivity, spread over the entire body as long
as it is dealing with the world, is eventually concentrated in the
genitals. The erotic senses behave as runners in a relay-race, handing
over the torch to each other, until at last the orgasmic fire can be
lit. After having handed over the torch, they sit down at the border of
the road, totally exhausted. The ear becomes deaf when the eyes begin to
look. The eyes are closed when the hand begins to touch, and the hands
stop touching when the genitals are getting ready for orgasm.
So heavily do the erotic senses cling to their appropriate erotic
appearance, that they try to postpone the handing over of the torch.
Loving eyes give up their reciprocal gaze only in exchange for the sight
of the visual beauty of the face and the body. When they eventually
switch over to touching, it is the hand that cannot stop from touching
and stroking. When the lovers are finally about to merge in orgasm, they
try to postpone the climax through slowing down the movements that will
bring about the explosion, until, quasi motionless, they are pervaded
with the ever increasing intensity of erotic sensation.
The irrevocable advent of the orgasm brings an end to the feelings of
pleasure. Whence the endeavour to postpone it. Above all the distance
senses – first and foremost the eye – are predestined for such
postponement: they have been developed in view of the restoration of
erotic contact when the bodies have to deal with the outer world. And
since such commerce happens to take up practically the whole duration of
our waking existence, seeing is the most common way of being erotically
sensitive. The eye only gains when it refuses to hand over the torch:
the increasing emotion of an ever more aroused body is an enchanting
spectacle indeed. But such refusal
initiates the ‘fall’ of the eye: the eye breaks the
ban on looking, imposed by the sense of touch.
In the end, the greedy eye threatens to prevent the unrolling of the
whole process. But, since it is the more aroused the more the admired
body becomes exalted, it eventually has to
yield to the pull of orgasm.
The erotic senses’ aspiration to autonomy is traditionally – and rightly
– called ‘perversion’: ‘pervertere’ means to deviate from an original
goal. Inevitably, the term ‘perversion’ is charged with moral
connotations. But is does not help to try to prevent this through
coining a new term such as Money’s ‘paraphilia’: the problem will repeat
itself. Rather than avoiding moral connotations and adopting a purely
technical stance, we should acknowledge the moral implications of the
phenomenon - the positive ones included: the perverse move reverts the
natural unfolding of love only in view of tapping new sources of
pleasure. From a positive point of view, then, the perverse move can be
described as an endeavour to aestheticisation
in the sense of 'becoming a goal in its own right'. The senses are freed
from their subordination under the ‘primacy of genitality’. Aestheticisation
is also an appropriate term, since it is derived from ‘perceiving’.
The perverse postponement and eventual cancellation of orgasm comes down
to a visualisation of love
- a subordination under
the primacy of the scopic drive. The
unfolding of love is transformed into a spectacle for
the eye. For the time being, the pull of the orgasm is strong enough to
counteract every endeavour to prevent the unfolding of love. In the
following chapters we will describe the take-over of the eye and its
eventual triumph over genitality.
Chapter II of 'The erotic eye and its
nude'

sans tête(s)
THE EROTIC APPEARANCE OF MAN
see also:
'the ecstasies of eros'
After having introduced the erotic eye in the first chapter, we should
now concentrate on what that eye is so eager to see: the beautiful body.
The beautiful body as such, though, will duly be dealt with in the
following chapters. In this second chapter we first want to situate the
erotic appearance in a broader – evolutionary, historic and social –
context
(1) BEAUTY AS THE
FOUNTAINHEAD OF LOVE
‘...toutes les hideurs de fécondité’
Charles Baudelaire (Les Fleurs du Mal).
The erotic appearance of man has everything to do with reproduction, but
hardly anything with the strict act of copulation. Rather is it parental
care that lies at the base of the erotic appearance of man: the eyes to
look in, the warm and soft skin to touch, the soft rounding of the
breast to hold, and not least the lips to kiss, are obviously derived
from maternal care.
No doubt, also the reproductive organs play an important role as a kind
of ‘sixth sense’: the act of copulation is not so much meant to
fertilise, as rather to provide the pleasure of orgasm. But the genitals
relate rather ambivalently to the erotic eye. With humans, the female
reproductive organs no longer signal the fertile period. That is why the
often impressive vaginal swellings of apes and primates shrink to the
rather modest labia in the human female, that go hidden behind the pubic
hair, and disappear between the legs as a consequence of
bipedalism (walking upright)
and neoteny (the persistence of foetal characteristics in the adult
organism). The presence of a fertile cycle is only betrayed through
menstrual blood. Also the smells that signal fertility are nearly
perceptible with humans.
As a consequence, the erotic eye of man is sensitive to a wholly
different kind of visual beauty: the optical qualities of the naked body
replace the attraction of the vaginal swellings. The beauty of that
naked body consists above all of qualities that allow to visually
anticipate the pleasures of touching: the undulations of the body, the
softness and flawlessness of the skin, the form and the colour of the
eyes. And these qualities are totally different from the rather
repellent wrinkles and
folds on the genitals, or the heavy pink, red or purple of the vaginal
swellings and the erect penis, which are slimy at that. Only the colour of the
lips, nipples and fingernails, and of the blush, remind of the
preliminary archaic phase. The human erotic eye, hence, is not out at
seeing the reproductive organs, but at admiring the beauty of the naked
body and its face. Only when the loving
partners, attracted by each other’s visual beauty, begin to touch and
kiss each other, does the arousal of the sense of touch elicit the
readiness of the genital organs.
The whole shift from reproductive organs to naked skin is enhanced in
that the sight of the reproductive organs reminds of rather negatively
charged phenomena. With most mammals, the genital organs protrude from
an opening or fissure in the fleece. That is why they remind of openings
in the human skin, such as the inner side of the eyelids or the lips, if
not of the threatening mouth of predators and the corollary wounds or
raw meat. Not for nothing do children lower their eyelids or protrude
their tongue when they want to show an abhorrent face. Not only the
form, also the colour of the genitals reminds of a wound: red is the
colour of blood. Menstrual blood only enhances that effect. That is why
non-informed onlookers often interpret the vaginal swellings of primates
as wounds, if not as cancers. The slimy surface also conjures up
associations with the archaic skin of reptiles, molluscs or fish.
The whole shift in the array of forms and colours explains why we often
recoil when unexpectedly exposed to the sight of genitals, and why a
certain reluctance – the primeval form of shame? - compels us to hide
them from view in one way or another. The opposition between the
unabashed exposure of the vaginal swellings by a bonobo and the modest
gesture with which the Venus of Urbino covers her genitals speaks
volumes. There is some truth in da Vinci’s saying that the act of
copulation and the reproductive organs are so repulsive, that mankind
would have died out long ago, were it not for the beauty of the human
face – think of his Mona Lisa. And not for nothing does Baudelaire refer
to ‘the sheer ugliness of fertility’.
The deep-seated reluctance to lay eyes upon the genitals and the
corollary propensity to hide them from view, only enhance the already
mentioned efforts of nature to hide the signals of fertility. They
equally explain the propensity to overlook the vagina and to read it as
the sheer absence of a penis. The association with a wound provokes a
further misreading of such absence as the result of castration, above
all in children.
We take a similar stance when unexpectedly exposed to sexual smells. The
reluctance can extend to bodily odours as such, which lies at the base
of the use of perfumes. And the reluctance also comes to encompass the
odours of secretion, as is apparent from the old dictum ‘inter urinas et
faeces nascimur’ (‘We are born between piss and shit’).
That the visual appearance of our genitals is an avatar from our
evolutionary prehistory, does not mean that they have become obsolete as
means of seduction. Quite the contrary: the sight of the genitals exerts
an often irresistible attraction on the devotees of the erect penis or
the aroused vagina. But it is only when the beauty of the body has
sufficiently aroused the eye, that it is prepared to value the beauty of
the genitals. And the genitals only unfold in all their glory when they
are sufficiently aroused by the activity of the eye. That is worlds
apart from phrasing - with Bataille – that the essence of the erotic
drive consists in desacralising the beauty of the face through the
exposure of the repulsive genital organs.
(2) THE RECIPROCITY OF HUMAN
SEXUAL SEDUCTION
‘Eiusdem libidinis est videri et videre’
‘The desire to see and to be seen is one and the same’
Tertullianus
In the animal world, beauty is the privilege of the sex that has to
compete for access to the other sex. Which sex has to compete, depends
on the division of parental care. The sex that invests most in the
offspring is the most selective: it does not waste its energy to the
bearers of inferior genetic material. Apart from exceptions – such as
the meanwhile legendary sticklebacks or sea horses – it is mostly
females who invest most in their offspring. That is why they are far
more selective than males. Males, conversely, only enhance their
reproductive success by fertilising as much females as possible. That is
why they are far less selective and far more competitive (Schopenhauer,
Trivers). The increased competitiveness between males and the corollary
selectivity of females makes that, in the animal world, it is
predominantly males who are the beautiful sex.
Human males play a considerable role in parental care. The role of the
father is no longer limited to fertilisation. It comes to encompass the
feeding and the education of the children. Father and mother proceed to
a division of tasks within the frame of the ‘sexual division of labour’.
This only enhances the importance of the father: only from his father
can a son learn his role as a male. Thus, the reproductive investment of
the father shifts from unrestrained copulatory efforts to economic care
and education. Henceforth, the female has to compete, not only for the
best possible fertile partner, but also for an economic partner and a
father that will be willing to educate his children. This leads to an
increased competition between women and an increased selectivity of
males. Whence the rather exceptional phenomenon of two equally beautiful
sexes in humans, which already puzzled Darwin. The evolution of the
beautiful woman is the counterpart of the evolution of a protecting,
feeding and educating father.
As a consequence, human seduction is no longer one-sided: it has to be
reciprocal. Seduction elicits seduction and admiration The enamoured eye
only gets to see the beauty of the beloved body when it is looking from
a body that emanates beauty itself.
Or to put it more technically: the scopic drive in
the lover is elicited by the phanic drive in his beloved, and it elicits
the phanic drive in the lover that elicits the scopic drive drive in the
beloved in a wholesome self-inducing circular dynamic.
And there is more. Also reciprocal help - ‘economic’ care - becomes an
expression of love, to the extent that we can rightly speak of an
‘economical coitus’. Sexual and economical coitus elicit each other and
become each other’s expression: humans have the irresistible propensity
to sexually gratify their economic partner and, conversely, to also
economically gratify a gratifying sexual partner. That is worlds apart
from the so-called ‘sex for meat’, that governs the one-sided behaviour
of many a primate (Symons)*
(3) THE EXCHANGE OF
BEAUTY FOR BENEFITS
‘Donner son corps, garder son âme’
How is it, then, that human females pass for the beautiful sex tout
court, while male beauty all too often seems to escape female attention?
As opposed to many other species, with humans, there are as much fertile
males as females. But, until recently, fertile females used to be
mothers that were either pregnant or lactating. This drastically reduces
the number of available women. Only in principle is the number of
available males equally reduced in that they become fathers: a father is
not visibly affected by fatherhood. Since a woman that is pregnant or
lactating is not precisely attractive to a man, except for the father of
her children, the number of sexually attractive males is considerably
larger than the number of available females. Moreover, female beauty is
far more transient, and it decreases with the number of pregnancies.
Such relative scarcity of female beauty explains why, from primeval
times onward, female beauty is in the focus of attention.
Since
time immemorial, the
beautiful woman is surrounded by a host of males that are busy competing
for her favours.
Equally
since time immemorial,
males are out at breaking the power of the beautiful woman that tries to
subjugate them through her sheer beauty. They did so by increasing their
economic and political power. The rather egalitarian economy of the
tribe has gradually been supplemented and finally been replaced with
barter between partners who are no longer affiliate through marriage or
descent. Through subordination of other men, the economic and political
power of a minority increases, to the detriment of an ever growing
majority. It suffices to compare a pharaoh and a peasant, a feudal lord
and his serfs, or a capitalist and a proletarian.
This dramatically affects the nature of male beauty. In primeval times,
sexual and economic prowess found their natural expression in pure
physical beauty – muscle, length, agility and skill. But since the
advent of the ‘social division of labour’, the importance of purely
external signs of economic and political power goes increasing. Bodily
beauty is pushed
to the background.
This is the more so, since physical beauty only decreases with age,
whereas economic or political power only increase with it. Hence, a
fundamental asymmetry comes to govern sexual relations: the exchange of
beauty for wealth - or benefits of all kinds. Reciprocal sexual
attraction and economic cooperation are no longer the foundations of
love. Only after such reduction is the complex and reciprocal
relationship between lovers reduced to the sheer exchange of ‘sex for
meat’, which in many parts of the world still determines the relation
between the sexes. Only this development explains why so many a woman
leaves the beautiful male in the cold - at least as far as marriage is
concerned: male beauty and male sexual prowess are still appreciated, as
long as no enduring relation is at stake.
(4) THE ADVENT OF
VOYEURISM AND EXHIBITIONISM
"Here I am, bent over the keyhole; suddenly I hear a footstep.
I shudder as a wave of shame sweeps over me.
Somebody has seen me".
Jean-Paul Sarte in 'Being and Nothingness'
Let us introduce the terms ‘voyeurism’ and ‘exhibitionism’. Although
these terms, introduced by Krafft-Ebing and popularised by Freud,
suggest otherwise, we are merely dealing with the one-sided descendants
of the originally mutually dependent scopic and phanic drives. As
opposed to the lover who admires ànd seduces her lover, an exhibitionist
is only out at being admired. She is not at all inclined to admire the
beauty of her admirer – let alone to yield to his advances. Conversely,
a voyeur is only out at admiring. He does not even consider the
possibility that the admired might admire his beauty in her turn - let
alone admit him within the confines of the temple.
The first lever that dislodges one-sided voyeurism and exhibitionism
from their original reciprocity as mutally
dependent scopic and phanic drives, is the exchange of beauty for benefits
of all kinds. Under such regime, man only admires female beauty, while
woman has only eyes for his economic power, not for his beauty. The
display of female beauty is turned into a pure exhibition that only
masks the reluctance to really surrender. Conversely, male admiration is
reduced to pure voyeurism. Since not his physical, but only his economic
and political power elicits female exhibitionism, he cannot make love
with a sexually excited partner. It can be justifiably said that man
reduces woman to her body, as long as the corollary reduction of man to
his economic and political power is not overlooked. For centuries, women
have been turned on by the sight of crowns, uniforms and titles or other
attributes of male power, such as castles and villas, carriages and
sport cars, parks and swimming pools. The reduction of man to purely
external attributes is if possible worse than the reduction of woman to
her body.
Not only the asymmetry of the exchange of beauty or benefits dislodges
voyeurism and exhibitionism. Differences in beauty have a more
devastating effect. Women are not equally beautiful. The more contacts
between people are increasing, the more such differences catch the eye.
Only the most prestigious man can get the most beautiful woman. The less
mighty and less wealthy must be satisfied with lesser beauties. They can
only dream of the most desirable women. In the real world, they have to
content themselves with the purely visual enjoyment of their beauty.
Which certainly lights the fire, but provides no firewood. The desired
body does not desire, and the desiring body is not desired. In such soil
is rooted a structural voyeurism: under the regime of the exchange of
beauty for benefits and of differential beauty, a majority of men is
doomed to only voyeuristically enjoy the beauty of a handful of scarce
women, monopolised by a minority. They may find solace in the idea that
this minority cannot consume the firewood either. Until recently, the
keepers of a harem had to protect their treasure by an army of eunuchs,
and in our era many a rich man is cuckolded by his gardener or porter.
In the following chapters we will describe how the beautiful woman
becomes still more unattainable when she appears in the image.
(5) MALE ORGAN VERSUS
FEMALE BODY
‘But to the girdle do the gods inherit
Beneath is all the fiends;
There’s hell, there’s darkness,
there is the sulphurous pit -
Burning, scalding, stench, consumption,
Fie, fie fie! Pap, pah!
Shakespeare, King Lear.
With humans, the nude body comes to replace the seductive role of the
genitals. Still, male genital organs remain visible, whereas female
organs are by nature concealed. Thus, the shift from genital organs to
body is far more completed in woman.
The beauty of the female body is further enhanced in that male beauty is
in many respects the opposite of female beauty. The beard and the bald
skull of the old man are the sheer negation of the beautiful mane and
the naked chin and cheeks of the young girl. Where the female body shows
its utmost treasures – the eyes, cheeks and lips in the face; the
breast, womb and the buttock on the body – the male body only shows up a
beard and hair, muscle and bone. Especially with white men, the haired male body
strongly contrasts with the alluring beauty of a completely hairless -
nude - female body. One can measure the effect of the hairless
smoothness of the nude by imagining a woman with hair on her breasts,
womb and buttocks….
From a purely optical point of view, hair, muscle and bones are mere
equivalents of soft, nude undulations. But the eye also sees the
delights of touching. And that makes the difference. A soft cheek is
worlds apart from a
unshaven male jaw, and not only children prefer
nestling between warm breasts or in a soft womb, above hurting on hard
muscle and bone. Since male beauty is in this sense not so much the
opposite, as rather the negation of female beauty, many a female beauty
prefers an ugly man: it only enhances her beauty by contrast. That is
the truth in the story of the beauty and the beast. The rumour goes that
Spanish queens delighted in being accompanied by apes in order to
highlight the beauty of their faces. It comes as no surprise that male
beauty is often modelled after the female model: the chin is shaved, the
mane abundant, the skin hairless and the flesh soft, while the erect frontality is replaced with the charming
slight deviations of the vertical and horizontal axe.
But this cannot prevent the penis from remaining exposed, especially
when aroused. Even when the power of an erection cannot fail to elicit
desire, the contrast of an organ that is not precisely the paragon of
beauty, with the in essence female beauty of the body catches the eye
all the more.
From the point of view of visual beauty, the opposition between male and
female crystallises around two oppositions: the female genitals as
negation of the penis, and the male body as negation of the female nude. These two oppositions are often condensed in the one
fundamental opposition between the hard, veined penis of the male and
the soft, nude body of the female.
The archaic nature of the penis makes it unsuitable for purely optical
enjoyment. Even when the erect penis is not entirely devoid of aesthetic
charms, many a woman prefers the muscled body, but above all the
external signs of wealth and power – the sceptre in the first place: it
never fails to stand upright and has a far but archaic appearance. The
shift from penis to body to attributes is the more welcome, since many a
woman prefers prestige to orgasm, let alone fertilisation, of which the
penis is after all still the instrument…
(6) THE FACE AND THE TRUNK
‘Du bist eine Frau wie die andere.
Die Häupter sind verschieden. Die Knie sind alle schwach.
So gehft es bei den Tieren.
B. Brecht, Baal.
Ideally, sexual and economical coitus reinforce each other. Sexual
attraction is an expression of the overall reciprocal dedication of the
partners to each other. Where beauty is exchanged for wealth or
prestige, and the lesser beauties are secretly longing for a better
partner, an opposition between ‘homo economicus’ and ‘homo sexualis’ is
installed. Soul and body are no longer two subsequent manifestations of
one and the same being, they come to be opposed
to each other as two
irreconcilable antipodes. This becomes manifest in the opposition of the
portrait in which the eyes as the mirrors of the soul are seated, and
the nude.
Where body and soul are continuously transformed into each other as two
manifestations of one and the same being, the eyes and the face are
eventually submerging in the overall erotic appearance of the body. In
Titian’s ‘Venus of Urbino’ above, the curves of cheeks, eyes and lips
come to echo the curves of the exposed body. Only when the erotic
incarnation is forced or faked do the eyes refuse to submerge in the
erotic appearance. They continue to gaze at us: they question, accuse or
defy the onlooker, or are turning away or hiding behind lowering eyelids
(see chapter IX).
That is why, under the regime of the exchange of beauty for wealth and
benefits, many an erotic eye prefers its nude to be faceless - a mere
trunk. The incarnation has become an ‘embodiment’ in the literal sense
of the word.
Compare four nudes. Titian’s ‘Venus of Urbino’ is willingly
displaying herself before our gaze. The desiring expression of the face
only confirms the willingness with which the body is displayed. With Giorgione, the body is unabashedly exposed, but the gaze goes
hidden behind lowered eyelids – which enables the curves of the face to
echo those of the body. Manet’s Olympia is looking at us with a gaze
that forbids any undisturbed enjoyment of her body. And in Courbet’s
‘Origine du Monde’ we lay eyes only upon the trunk with its legs spread
wide. The face, containing the gaze that does not want to become
appearance, is bluntly zoomed out.
The inner counterpart of the appearance as a body without a face, is the
experience of sexual surrender as a loss or a destruction of the soul or
the person - genuine lovers only experience a thrill when, after having
cared for each other economically, they can now finally sexually enjoy
each other's body.
The echo of such opposition between face and trunk is the complaint of
many a woman that she is only loved because of her body, not because of
her personality; that she is reduced to a pure object, delivered to the
leering look of a sovereign male subject. That complaint is justified as
long as the complementary rape of the male being is not overlooked. The
very woman that is reduced to a body conversely refuses to let the male
body appear. Male embodiment is restricted to a pure descent into the
eye: the ‘en-oculation’ of man as the counterpart of the ‘incarnation’
of woman. The entwining of the loving couple is transformed in the
unhappy encounter of an eye without a body, that is doomed to gaze at a
body without a face and that is directly connected to an erect penis
desperately seeking a womb wherein it could come to rest.
Of such unhappy encounter, Hokusai’s octopus with its greedy eyes and
voluptuous tentacles is an unsurpassed representation: it even has two
eyes on the tentacle that kisses the mouth. And the woman, turning her
face backwards, is supposed to enjoy the proceedings.
The decapitation of woman and the en-oculation of man are merely the
prelude to the epiphany of the all-seeing eye of God. From heavenly
heights it looks down to the en-oculated being that peeps through the
Sartrean keyhole at a body without face lifting the eyes up to heaven.
Of such God, Moses – with whom we will have to deal extensively in
chapter XI - is merely the representative on earth.
Thus we have come full circle.
Chapter III of 'The erotic eye and its nude'

objet de désir 7
see also:
'the ecstasies of eros'
THE EYE’S SEIZURE OF POWER: THE VISUALISATION OF THE EROTIC APPEARANCE
INTRODUCTION
The erotic appearance of man is far from unequivocal. Rather can it be
compared with a text in which the words have more than one meaning.
Thus, the lips often remind of the vagina, or a muscled and veined arm
of the penis. The erotic charge of one element is often displaced to
another. Purely visual similarities play a crucial role in this process,
and it is often consolidated through language (think of the ‘labia’).
But, in this chapter, we will show that the whole movement of
displacement is above all the result of the coordinated effort of three
forces: the attempt to aestheticise the archaic sight of the genitals,
the attempt to soothe the anxiety provoked by the idea of the
lurid
wound, but foremost the eye’s attempt to take the place of touch and
genital feeling. Especially the last move comes down to a veritable
seizure of power: it leads to the utter visualisation of the tactile and
genital appearance, which culminates in the emergence of the phallic
woman and the vaginal man.
(1) THE AESTHETICISING
OF ARCHAIC BEAUTY
In the previous chapter we have seen that the genitals appeal to a
rather archaic sensitivity. That elicits the attempt to replace them
with more aesthetic substitutes. There are many parts of the body that
are apt to meet the aesthetic demands of the eye.
To begin with, there are the fingers and toes. The bones make these
elongated members stiff, as does the blood in the erect penis, and they
are crowned with nails, which have the colour in common with the glans,
but not the slimy sight.
Sexual arousal makes the veins swell under the skin, the effect of which
is visible foremost on the back of the hand or the foot. That is why the
single finger is often replaced with the whole hand or foot. Also
arms and legs are not only hard and veined, just like fingers and toes,
but muscled as well, which can only endorse the evocation of the force
of the erect penis. Also the nose reminds of
the penis: it secretes slime, its back reminds of the shaft and the
nostrils of the scrotum, while a moustache is an obvious substitute for
the pubic hair. And, finally, there is the neck: the larynx moves back
and forth under the skin just like the glans under the foreskin,
especially when the head is thrown backwards and the neck is ‘erected’:
Not only the penis, also the vagina is substituted with more aesthetic
parts of the body in the periphery. The most obvious substitutes are the
lips. These have colour, shape and structure in common with the labia,
without being slimy. With the eye, the eyelids remind of the labia, the
eyelashes or the eyebrows remind of the pubic hair, the tear gland of
the clitoris and the pupil of the vaginal opening. The auricle is a hollow surrounded by folds reminding
of the labia. The armpits are a fold
surrounded by hair, and they have the odour in common with the vagina.
Also the parting of the hair on the head is often read as a vagina.
(2) THE HEALING OF THE WOUND
Not only the archaic sight of the vagina unleashes the centrifugal
displacement to the peripheral parts of the body. Also the anxiety
provoked through the interpretation of the vagina as a cut plays an
important role. A healed wound on a more neutral part of the body
soothes the anxiety and serves the aesthetic move as well. Foremost the
navel is apt for such displacement. Even more appropriate to deny the idea of a wound are
the hollows and folds that are formed when parts of the body are pressed
against each other: the undamaged skin neutralises the slimy and gory
sight of the labia. This holds especially true for the fold formed when
the thighs are pressed together. But many other parts can serve the
purpose. How much these folds, especially
those of the pressed thighs, continue to remind of wounds, may appear
from the fact that they are often wrapped with cloth. The healing move is completed when the seam grows
together, as with a mermaid (see chapter VIII).
Especially the displacement of the vagina to the back is very
appropriate to remove any reminder of a wound. The slimy and gory wound
is replaced with the undamaged fold of the buttocks. Further backwards, the fold of the buttocks is
dissolving into the even, undamaged surface of the back. Only its
symmetry reminds of the wound. The spinal
column is an extension of the anal cleft. On both sides are two bundles
of muscles that function as substitutes for the labia, while the whole
is covered with undamaged skin: hollow, but not cut. The effect is continued in the two bundles of muscles
in the neck, where the little hairs cannot fail to remind of the pubic
hair. The healing move comes to its apogee
when the cut, opening up into the hole, is altogether replaced with the
undamaged, convex womb that surrounds it, as in Brancusi’s ‘Torse de
jeune fille’.
(3) THE VISUALISATION OF
TACTILE AND GENITAL PROCEEDINGS
Under displaced form, the genitals are no longer bound to a sexually
determined body. Also a woman has fingers, toes, arms, legs and a nose,
and also a man has a mouth, folds and hollows, and a back. Worse still:
the body of the other sex is often far more appropriate to attract the
displacement. Think of the female nipples, which are larger than male
ones, become erect like the penis and have the same colour, without
being slimy.
But the displacement of the penis to the female body is not obvious. It
goes counter the ineradicable propensity to conform all the
characteristics of a body to its sex. A voice sounds differently when is
it supposed to belong to a female or to a male person. There are lots of
examples that evidence this rule.
When this compelling rule is so often broken, strong forces must be at
work to counteract sexual stereotyping. Driving force is the ‘perverse
move’, introduced in the first chapter. When lovers are kissing each
other, they close their eyes. But the eyes want to continue enjoying
visual beauty: the lovers want see the exalted face instead of feeling
it with the lips. And when the hand begins to touch, the eye only grants
it its pleasure because it elicits new signs of exaltation on the body. The greedy eye then scans the body, until it finally comes to
rest at the sight of the erect penis or the aroused vagina, the ultimate
signs of exaltation. Stubbornly clinging to its desire for visual
pleasure, the eye would like to witness even the merger of the genitals.
But when these are allowed to do as they please, the penis inevitably
will disappear in the vagina. When the eye is not prepared to give up
its pleasure, it will have to prevent such merger and the impending
advent of orgasm (see chapter I)
Such seizure of power trough the eye comes down to a veritable
‘castration’: seeing forbids genital feeling. The blindness for the
‘castrating’ effect of the eye is so general, that it is not superfluous
to remind of the difference between visual and genital perception of the
orgasm. With the eye, we only see signs of the orgasm: the blush, the
erection of diverse parts of the body, the grimacing of the face, the
heavy breathing of the chest, the twisting of the body, male and female
ejaculations. With the ear, we hear the heavy breathing, the voluptuous
moaning and ecstatic crying, and with the nose we smell the often
dizzying odours. How eloquent these expression may be, they are mere
outer signs of orgasm, not orgasm itself. It is a mistake to assert –
with Linda Williams – that one can see the male orgasm, especially when
she holds that the female orgasm is invisible, because one cannot see
the contractions of the vagina. As a sign, the female orgasm is all too
visible – how else could women fake it so readily for the male gaze?
Precisely because the eye depends on signs, it is so easily betrayed….
The perverse desire to continue looking runs up against a threshold that can
never be crossed. Orgasm, the kernel of the erotic proceedings, will
forever remain invisible, how deeply it might move us. Only the genitals
can feel it. That holds not only of the orgasm, but also of the sense of
touch. When the hands are exalting the body, the eye equally sees only
the signs of that exaltation. We easily overlook this fact, because the
hands continue feeling while the eye is looking: while the eye relishes
the sight of the erect nipples, the hand feels the warm swelling of the
breast. Only in the preliminary visual phase of seduction are seeing and
feeling one and the same thing, because here ‘feeling’ is ‘seeing’.
Visual exaltation is apparent in the pure fact of displaying one’s
beauty. Only in its own domain can the eye witness exaltation. There is,
hence, a real gap between being enchanted through the intrinsic visual
beauty of a face, or becoming exalted by gazing at the signs of
exaltation or of the invisible orgasm on that very same face.
We understand at the same time that the aestheticising and
anxiety-soothing centrifugal move away from the genitals described
above, is prepared by a far more fundamental move: the ‘perverse’ move
from tactile and genital feeling to the visual signs of it. The eye is
not only out at enjoying purely visual beauty, as it is displayed in the
reciprocity of showing and looking. More often is it eager to lay eyes
upon the visual signs of tactile and genital exaltation. Such visualising leads
to a grandiose unfolding of the array of visual appearances of the body
beautiful.
(4) THE HERMAPHRODITE BODY
(1): THE PHALLIC WOMAN
The take over of the eye has an unexpected consequence:
in that
the greedy eye neutralises the penis, precisely the acme that it
so dearly wants to see cannot take place.
In a first attempt at solving this problem, the greedy eye wants the
desired body to bring itself to orgasm, or a third party to take over
the role that it forbids its own body. Then, the erotic appearance is no
longer a part of the more encompassing whole, in which the lovers
reciprocally admire each other’s display. It is transformed into the
spectacle of a loving couple or of a body exalting itself before the eye
of a third onlooker. The vicissitudes of the eye and its nude along this
path will occupy us in chapter X. Here, we are interested in a third
possibility: how the eye that forbids the advent of the penis, has the
desired body transformed into a hermaphrodite in the real sense of the
word: a being that possesses both sexual organs.
It is not difficult to understand how a body that is no longer involved
in a
reciprocal process of displaying and admiring, is transformed into such
a hermaphrodite body. The seizure of power of the eye, which comes down
to an elimination of the genitals and the hands, transforms the eye into
a pure voyeuristic eye: it merely looks and does no longer arouse the
desired body through touching, let alone penetration. Inadvertently, the
exalted beauty is turned into a frigid beauty. Which only fuels the
desire to lay eyes upon the signs of arousal on the desired body. The
signs of arousal par excellence are the erect genitals. Thus, the eye
must have the erect penis, in which it refuses to metamorphose,
resurrect in the desired body, to testify to
its arousal. Such projection pays: the eye can see at the same glance
desired and desiring body. Through such transformation of the desired
body into a hermaphrodite, the castration of the desiring body is made
undone.
There are many ways to work that miracle. Starting point of the
projection is the very void that is created in that the eye forbids the
penis to penetrate the vagina. What the eye gets to see then is the
vagina as a mere void – sheer nothingness. It is obvious, then, to let
the excluded penis protrude from within the void. The idea of a resurrection of the penis from the void
is rooted in the presence of the cervix in the invisible hole. The
reversal of the direction of the penis betrays that we are dealing here
with the desiring penis. Such reversal makes the hermaphrodite body
differ from the body that arouses itself, where the substitutes of the
penis are turned inwards.
In second variant, the female genitals are so represented as to resemble
the male ones. The labia maiora are the counterpart of the male scrotum,
the labia minora of the shaft, and the clitoris of the glans. Protruding
labia minora are an obvious substitute for the protruding penis. Also the pubic hair can serve the purpose when it has
an appropriate shape.
In a second phase, the projected penis is displaced to the more
aesthetic fingers and toes, arms and legs. Triumphantly, they radiate
from the (implicit or emphasized) void. Rather than denying it, they
enhance its effect through contrast. The emphasis may be on fingers or
toes, fingers ànd toes, on arms or legs, on both arms and legs, or on
fingers and toes, arms and legs. The desiring penis may also be
displaced to erect breasts and nipples.
The élan of the nipples may be joined by that of arms and legs, fingers
and toes or by the overall erect stature of
the body. Also braids and locks can embody the
desiring penis when radiating centrifugally from the trunk enclosing the
desired void. And the head, finally, can be
read as the glans on the shaft of the neck.
As a result of this process, the female body is eventually turned into
its very opposite: erect protrusions have taken the place of hole,
hollows and undulations. In fact, the female body is from the beginning
constructed around the contrast between hole/rounding and protrusion:
the long legs and arms lend the female body an additional charm. But the
opposition only becomes manifest when it is additionally charged with
the phallic desire of the castrated voyeur.
And the phallic charge of the body is anything but completed. For, in a
third phase, the hermaphrodite only appears after the displacement of
both penis and vagina. When the vagina is displaced to the lips of the
mouth, the elusive penis resurfaces in the protrusion of the tongue. The vagina can also be displaced to the hand(s),
where fingers and thumb come to be opposed to the void contained within
the palms of the hand. A good example is Rodin’s ‘La cathédrale’. When
this artist retired himself with his models, he used to hang a leaflet
on the door with the words ‘L’artiste visite la cathédrale’. In the representation of the Medusa the vagina is
displaced to the mouth and the multiplied penis to the locks turned into
wriggling snakes.
Both motives – the replacement of the archaic mucous membranes with undamaged skin and the soothing of
anxieties about the cut – often work together. The vagina is then
replaced with the undamaged skin of the womb that contains it. The
phallic charge
is further opposed to the confining womb to the protrusion of
arms, legs and head. A fascinating version is Ingres’ ‘Grande
odalisque’. The armpit reminds of the fold between the legs, but the cut
is denied through the emphasis on the convex breast. From this centre
the elongated arms and legs radiate and end up in a profusion of fingers
and toes.
We cannot but expect the phallic body to yield to the temptation of
penetrating itself. We are then witnessing all the forms of
masturbation, which will be dealt with in chapter X, together with the
arousal of the body through a third party.
(5) THE HERMAPHRODITE BODY
(2): THE VAGINAL MAN
In principle, the desiring eye of the female (or of a feminine man) can
equally project the excluded vagina on a man. Also the male body
provides many an appropriate substitute for the vagina: anus, mouth,
eye, folds. This holds especially for the mouth, which reminds of
a hungry child that must be satisfied by introducing the nipple of the
breast. Excessive eating leads to a fat belly, which provides, besides a
multitude of folds, also a new opening: the navel, as in the statue of
the dwarf Morgante in the gardens of Boboli, where the emphasis
on the open mouth and the navel is accentuated by the eyes and the
mouth of the tortoise, whose shield only echoes the rounding of the
belly.
But the male body offers far less possibilities to oppose
the hollow to the penis.
Add to this that the expression of an aroused vagina is far less speaking
than that of an erect penis. And, finally, we should not forget that,
under the regime of the exchange of beauty for benefits, only the male
is the desiring party. All this makes the projection of the desiring
vagina on the male body far more scarce than the converse projection of
the penis on the female body. But the feminine investment of the male
body is not altogether absent.
The male organ provides practically no clues for the projection of labia
or vaginal opening. Only the mouth of the penis and the opening of the
foreskin are candidates. In the immediate vicinity of the penis is the
anus. But the point of view from which the anus is seen hides the shaft
of the penis from view. There are more possibilities when not only the
vagina, but also the penis is displaced to more peripheral parts. The
anus may be opposed to a tail, as with the devil. Far more appropriate is the displacement of the
vagina to the mouth, especially when there is a beard and a moustache.
The role of the penis can be played by the tongue, the nose, the points
of the moustache, the beard, locks or horns that centrifugally radiate
from the opening of the mouth.
Thus, the eye conjures up the excluded genitals on male and female body
alike. Next to the ‘phallic women’, there is also a ‘vaginal man’ or –
to account for the displacements – the ‘vagoral’ or ‘vaganal’ or
‘wounded’ man. But it is probably better to speak of the (male or
female) hermaphrodite: this term has the advantage that it emphasizes
the process of projection and displacement, which is essentially the
same in both sexes, and that it can be applied to the displaced forms.
A remarkable encounter of male and female hermaphrodite has been painted
by Ingres in his ‘Jupiter and Thetis’. With Thetis, the emphasis is on
the protrusions, while the vagina is concealed. With Jupiter, the mighty
limbs and the staff frame the mouth surrounded with a moustache, the
fold of the navel and the hollow between the toes. The reversal comes to
its apogee when the male ‘vagina’ is fingered through female ‘penises’:
(6)
THE HERMAPHRODITE BODY(3)
Not only the perverse move is responsible for the transformation of the
erotic appearance into a hermaphrodite. Also the scarcity of female
beauty plays an important role. As we have seen, it leads to an
indifference towards male beauty, which is only increased through the
exchange of beauty for benefits. In the end, the isolated scopic drive
in the male comes to be opposed to the isolated phanic drive in the
female, or - to put it somewhat more graphically: the greedy eye and the
erect penis of the male are confronting the beautiful body of the
(frigid) women, as in Hokusai's print.
That cannot but stir the desire to restore reciprocity. The desiring
male wants to be desired, and since he cannot but conceive of
desirability as of a
female beauty, he fills the empty space
between desiring eye and desiring penis with the corresponding parts of
a desirable female body. Conversely, the desired female wants to desire,
and since she cannot but conceive of desire as of
male desire, she
completes her desirable body with a desiring penis. In both cases, the
restorative move results in the construction of the desired female body
with the desiring penis.
A good example is Donatelo's David. The beautiful young boy enjoys the
beauty of his own body that makes him independent from the unattainable
woman. The entwining of the bodies is replaced with the closed circle of
the eye admiring the beauty of its own body. This image - as if it were the
sequel to Hokusai's octopus - embodies the complete visualisation of
genitality: the penis that was out a penetrating the vagina is replaced
with the eye admiring its own body.
The counterpart of such 'feminine' self-sufficient retirement in itself
is the aggressive triumph of the 'phallic woman': desirability and
desire in one and the same body. Here, the emphasis is on the desiring
penis.
In both cases, the eye enjoys its own body, or to be more precise the
part of its body that belongs to the other sex. The eye can look
directly to its body (David), but more often it prefers to resort to a
mirror or an image. Or the enjoyment is mediated through the eye of a
third party, as is the case with the transvestite (see chapter V). In
all cases the voyeur tries to restore the broken reciprocity of showing
and looking, the entwining of scopic and phanic drive, through
projecting its own showing and looking: from within his own body, he
looks at the aroused appearance in the mirror, from where his own gaze
is summoning up the transport of his own body.
Also the merger of desiring penis and desired body can be described as a
hermaphrodite body. Unjustifiably though, since a real hermaphrodite has
the sexual organs of both sexes, whereas our 'hermaphrodite' has only
that desirable body of one sex, and the desiring organ of the other.
Real hermaphrodites are the representations described above.
The visualisation is completed when the identification of desiring body
and desired body eventually leads to the replacement of the desiring
organ itself. That is the case when the male wants to be transformed in
the desired female, and the desired female in the desired male. An
illustration is the self-portrait of Schiele: a gory seam runs over the
scrotum, no member is to be seen, the abdomen is transformed into a
womb, the upper part of the body is adorned with female breast, the arms
hold their own head and the legs are cut off, not otherwise than the
penis. Only the angularity of the skinny body are the last testimonies
to the dissolved masculinity.
The preliminary stages to such transformation can be seen in the
painting where Schiele is looking into a mirror over the shoulder of his
model, not by accident a pubertal girl that nearly shows the signs of
feminists.
(7)
THE EYE AND ITS FETISHES
So strong is the ‘perverse’ desire to witness the tactile and genital
exaltation, that the erotic eye all too easily overlooks that it is
merely enjoying signs: to maintain its position, the eye should above
all not remember that those signs only refer to what is doomed to remain
invisible forever. Therein, the eye resembles the devotees of the golden
calf: they take the representation for the invisible original. They are
worshipping an idol - a fetish.
Through forbidding precisely what it wants to see, the erotic eye
creates the very void that is doomed to remain empty forever. What is
supposed to disappear in it, resurfaces from within. Out of this move is
born the primeval fetish. The propensity to aestheticise the genitals
and the attempts to soothe the anxiety about the wound, make the
original representation move centrifugally to the periphery. Thus, the
primeval fetish becomes unrecognisable. It goes hidden behind ever new
fetishes of the second generation: fetishes of the fetish. Again like with
the golden calf, also these fetishes of the second generation use to be
worshipped with a devotion that is meant for the original that goes
hidden behind an aesthetic veil.
Thus, voyeurism is the mother of fetishism. The further vicissitudes of
fetishism will be dealt with in chapter VI.
Chapter IV of 'The erotic eye and its nude' 
objet de désir 5
see also:
'the ecstasies of eros'
THE DISPLAY OF
BEAUTY: REVEALING AND CONCEALING
INTRODUCTION
The body is
not always flaunting its attractiveness. Even when it openly seduces, it
shows only its one side to hide the
other from view, and many an attractive part covers another one: as when
the arms are crossed over the chest, when one leg is crossed over the
other, when the hair covers the neck. That is why a whole range of
erotic gestures and poses haven been developed to display erotic charms
that are normally hidden or perhaps even non-existent. Natural display
can be involuntary, as is the case with the widening of the pupil,
blushing, erections of various parts of the body, or the secretion of
various smells and fluids. But it can also be voluntary. Such is the
case with smiling, presenting the breasts, stretching the body, not to
mention adopting a supine or prostrate position and widening the thighs.
Let us have a closer look at these manifold manifestations of the phanic
drive.
(1) SEDUCTION
Seduction begins with the gaze. It no longer idly flutters around, but
tries to catch the gaze of the beloved. It can look straightforward from
a frontal face,
but more often, the face is gently inclined, forward
and/or sideward. In all cases, the mouth is
relaxed and the lips are somewhat parted. When the face is gently thrown
backward, that expression often unfolds to a nearly concealed kiss.
Hypnotising with the gaze is merely an advance to mesmerising with body. The move is inaugurated by a subtle shift from the
face to the breasts until finally the whole
body is put on display.
(2) THE ALLURE OF THE
GESTURE OF DISPLAYING
Putting one's attractiveness to display becomes an erotic gesture in its
own right, the relish of which only adds to the charms of the beauty
displayed. Pulling the hair up is even more enchanting than the sight of
the uncovered neck. The act of presenting the breasts or the buttocks is
even more seducing than the sight of what is put on display. Splaying the thighs wide only enhances the appeal of
the body exposed. Things come to their apogee
when the nude fully reclines, with its arms lifted up and its legs
spread wide.
(3) THE CHARMS OF CONCEALING
Add to this that the effect of displaying can be heightened by teasingly
concealing erotic charms before eventually unravelling them. That is why
erotic display has come to include an endless array of tantalising
manoeuvres. These range from inclining the head and lowering the eyes,
over folding the hands across the chest, lifting the legs or turning the
back, to withdrawing, running away and pushing back - not to mention
slowing down and restraining when eventually the two bodies are
entwined. In lingering over the display of erotic charms, the nude comes
to endorse the erotic eye's complementary desire to linger over the relish
of visual beauty.
To begin with, a gaze from a gently turned away face looks even more
inviting, especially when one eye goes hidden behind the hair. Or the expression of the lips is all the more
promising when their intentions are concealed by hands that cannot
refrain from grasping themselves. Even more
tantalising is the lowering of the eyelids in a turned away face,
especially when the half-parted lips cannot but betray the readiness to
kiss. But even when the face does not at all
conceal its intentions, the tension may be heightened by crossing the
arms over the breast, especially when also the
knees are lifted up or when the nude turns its
back on us at that.
The effect of concealing is even further enhanced when it is combined
with putting other alluring parts on display. That holds especially true
for a dorsal display. The sight of the back cannot but all the more stir
the desire to see the hidden beauty of the front.
Displaying one's beauty, then, is not a matter of simply exposing
oneself before the gaze of the seduced. It is of necessity always a
process unfolding in time.
Needless to say that the game of concealing and revealing only folly
unfolds when clothes are allowed to enter the picture. Time has come,
then, to examine their influence on the development of voyeurism
and exhibitionism.
Chapter V of 'The erotic eye and its nude' 
objet de désir 4
see also:
'the ecstasies of eros'
THE NUDE CLAD
(1) CLOTHES
Erotic display is far but restricted to natural ways of concealing and
revealing the body's appeal. Humans have always been trying to
artificially increase their erotic attractiveness through a whole array
of artificial means: clothes, make-up, tattoos, jewellery, prostheses,
not to mention chirurgical, hormonal or genetic interventions.
Dress is the most conspicuous of these techniques, and at the same time
the most intriguing, because it seems to be counterproductive through
hiding the beauty of the nude from view. That does not prevent dressing
from being a very effective and sophisticated device for widening the
range of erotic display and intensifying the pleasure of natural erotic
charms.
To begin with, clothes tend to stir a yearning to uncover what lies
beneath. In real life, the impulse to bluntly denudate a dressed body is
repressed through the presence of a gaze: the gaze not only
spiritualises or forbids any erotic relation, it can also teasingly
postpone it.
Clothes not only stir the desire to uncover, they also make all the more
desirable what they conceal - as in the very paradigm of clothing: the
half-clad, half-naked bosom. That is why dressing enriches the natural
range of erotic display with that most alluring of all seductive
procedures: stripping. There are countless variants. Very fascinating is the uncovering of the breasts. But also the taking off of shoes, the undoing of
stockings or the lifting up of a smock exert an often irresistible spell. Especially the uncovering of the back is most
exciting, since what we get to see is only an advance to the splendours
on the front.
It is apparent, then, that clothes are not originally meant to conceal
nakedness; they are intended to cover nudity - which is quite a
different matter. There is no point in stripping if what is revealed is
merely an indifferent, sheer naked body. On the other hand, people do
not depend on clothing to hide their nudity - it suffices to be naked.
Nudity only appears in an exalted body. Neither does the body lose its
appeal when it is always naked. On the contrary, sheer nakedness - in
much the same way as the body clad - only ignites the desire for nudity
to appear.
(2) CLAD AND NUDE
Since no garment can possibly cover the entire body, covering of
necessity equals leaving uncovered. The lustful eye can't help regarding
the parts left uncovered as all the more valuable delights. Clothing,
therefore, not only stirs the desire to uncover, it enhances above
all the nudity
of the parts left uncovered. In this sense, the state
of dress is always a state of undress. That is most poignantly
exemplified in the low neckline, that leaves the breasts half-covered,
half-exposed.
Due to habituation, the body has to yield ever more nudity, as when the
skirts are becoming shorter or the neckline is lowering. The formerly
covered parts now seem all the more desirable. In the downward sense,
first the eyes and the face are exposed, then the hair and the neck,
then the shoulders and the bosom. In the
sideward sense, first the hands are exposed, then the forearm, the upper
arm and eventually the shoulders. In the upward sense, first the feet
are left uncovered, than the ankles and the lower legs, then the
thighs. The movement can also proceed from the waist until only the
breasts and the genitals are covered. The
neckline on the back may be lowered until the whole back is exposed.
The same process affects also single parts of the body: the veil covers
only the hair instead of the whole face, the fingers show up through a
glove that merely covers the palm of the hand, the shoe leaves ever more
parts of the foot uncovered, or the cups of the bra are reduced to a
mere strip over the nipples. The covering of
the waist may be reduced to a mere ribbon, or the pants to a mere string
that all the more accentuates the nudity of the buttocks.
So does the erotic eye regain the paradise lost to garment. But at the
same time, the charms of concealing are lost. What is allowed to be
naked, loses its additional charms, and a whole array of seductive
gestures irrevocably evaporates: the removal of the veil, the taking off
of gloves, the denudation of a leg. That cannot but elicit up a
countermove: the tendency to cover what has previously been allowed to
remain nude. Eventually, an ever extending array of possibilities is
developed, ranging from the utter concealment of the body leaving only
the eyes and the hands uncovered, and sheer nudity, leaving only the
genitals covered (Kroeber).
In accordance with the natural propensity to conceal the genitalia,
mostly the peripheral parts are left uncovered. A tantalising effect is
derived from a complete reversal of this scheme, when the body is nude
where it would normally be covered, and covered where it is normally
nude. It is obvious that the splendour of the habitually covered areas
of the body is heightened by contrast with the clothes on the habitually
exposed parts. The latter regain their appeal precisely because they are
now concealed. Which only increases the desire to eventually restore the
body in its full glory.
There are several variations on the theme of reversal. Everything is
left uncovered, except for the head and the feet; everything
is left uncovered, except for the hands and feet,
or arms and legs; everything is left
uncovered, except for the waist; everything is
left uncovered, except for a necklace or a bracelet; everything
is covered, except for the vagina; only the
upper or lower part of the body are covered; only
the left of right side of the body is covered;
the front is covered and the back left nude,
or vice versa. The reversal is also most
cherished in the parts. The bra may be reduced to a mere frame around
the breasts left nude; or the sleeves and/or
legs are reduced to a cover around the elbows and knees. Very exciting
is also the contrast between a body naked and a body clad, as when the
completely dressed lover holds his utterly nude beloved, as has been
customary in the many pietas and Manet's well-known 'Déjeuner sur
l'herbe'.
When the reversal is too drastic, it resorts a reverse effect,
especially when the onlooker is suddenly confronted with uncovered
genitals in an otherwise completely clad body. Only when the onlooker
has been previously turned on by the sight of more peripheral parts is
the eye prepared to enjoy the sight of the genitals. That is why blunt
exposure cannot fail to provoke revulsion - in which resides the secret
charm of the performance of the exhibitionist (in the strict sense of
the word). Also when nude breasts are isolated, they often exert a
threatening effect - as with Ingres, where the effect is obtained
through letting the body submerge in shadowy areas.
(3) LINGERIE
A new impetus for playing the game of concealing and revealing is given
when the body is covered with more than one layer. Salomé had herself
wrapped in seven veils in order to prolong her unveiling.
Even more effective than adding up identical layers is the heightening
of the contrast between the layers. The introduction of a layer of
underwear ensues a kind of reciprocal specialisation: the more
transparent and intimating the underwear, the more concealing the
outerwear. Such specialisation also affects texture - the softer the
undergarment, the rougher the outerwear. Fabric itself comes to be
reallocated. Whereas hand-made lace used to be an outer adornment,
machine-made lace has become a favourite for underwear (Hollander). The
same is true for lace and satin. Furthermore, where the task of
revealing the body's contours is relegated to underwear, every other
layer has to hint at the presence and reveal the nature of the next.
Preferably, underwear peeks out from beneath an outer layer, such as the
cuffs of sleeves, or the ribbons or the edges of the bra. In the same
vein, the outline of the underwear may appear through semi-transparent
fabric, or its relief may show through a tight-fitting dress.
The more specialised the layers, the greater their propensity to become
an autonomous component with increasing internal specialisation and
organisation. The chemise, for centuries the sole basic undergarment for
all European women (Hollander) has been gradually replaced with lingerie
consisting of many parts: underpants, garter belts, corsets and bras.
The more specialised a layer, the greater its specific appeal and the
greater its autonomy. Undressing develops into a continuous
metamorphosis. In every stage of its unfolding, a new erotic appearance
with its own merits is revealed. Far from merely referring to the next
stage of undressing, every intermediate appearance tries to substitute
its own splendour to the detriment of the next stage. That is most
apparent in the appeal of that new kind of intermediary stage between
clad and nude: the body clad in a swimsuit or lingerie.
The habitual presence of underwear also allows for more sophistication
in the techniques of unveiling. To begin with, new forms of undressing
emerge: the revealing of the underwear under the outerwear, and the
revealing of the body under the lingerie. But
also other refined ways of heightening the erotic tension emerge. A kind
of shortcut can be achieved when a naked body shows up where an
intermediate of underclothing was expected.
This type of shortcut not only pleases the erotic eye, but foremost its
nude. There is a special thrill in wearing a garment over naked breasts
or walking around in a skirt without a slip underneath, or - in
sharpening the contrast even further - appearing completely naked
underneath a thick fur coat, formal attire, or heavy working apparel.
(4) DRAPED, CUT, STRETCHED
0R TRANSPARENT
But there is more. Although clothes hide nudity from view, they cannot
but court the shapes of the body. Here is another way in which
concealing can be transformed into a refined way of revealing. Already
draped dress produces a contrast between the fall of the folds and the
undulations that show through. To accentuate such contrast, the wearer
my have the wind blow against his body or water make the fabric cling to
it. More efficient is cutting up the fabric so that it comes to court
more intimately the shape of the body.
The desire to lay eyes upon what is concealed can become so urgent that
even cutting up does not suffice. Additional elasticity makes the dress
perfectly court the undulations of the body that was supposed to
conceal, as with tight-knitted dresses, nylon stockings and latex.
The covering is shortcut altogether when the fabric itself is
transparent, or when the surface shrinks into
a mere ribbon or strings. A most alluring
effect is achieved when the body is naked but nevertheless covered with paint.
Finally, a pure reminder of clothes has to suffice: think of the white
imprints of articles of clothing on a body that has been exposed to the
sun.
(5) LINGERING OVER SEDUCTION
‘Puis, elle faisait d’un
seul geste tomber l’ensemble de ses vêtements’
Flaubert, Emma Bovary.
Exciting though garments can be, dressing cannot be an end in itself.
There is no purpose in heightening the appeal of the body when it is no
longer revealed. Getting dressed is only a prelude to, if not a means of
postponing the forthcoming denudation. The ultimate destiny of clothes
is to be laid off.
That becomes all too obvious when we compare clothes with the whole
array of other artificial means to enhance the erotic appeal, such as
make-up, epilating and shaving, cosmetic surgery, the use of all kind of
prostheses, wigs, false eyelashes, and what have you. Although these
devices are often put on the same footing as
clothing, we are dealing with totally different phenomena. To be sure,
some of these artifices can be laid off like clothes: think of make-up,
a set of dentures or a wig. But their removal only lays bare hidden
shortcomings instead of hidden charms. The difference is between
objectively adding to the beauty or concealing shortcomings on the one
hand, and subjectively increasing the erotic appeal on the other hand. That is already apparent from the structure of
clothes itself, which is determined by the ease with which they are laid
off. The charm of well-fitting trousers resides in opening the zipper,
the charm of a blouse in its unbuttoning, the secret of the corset in
its unlacing, the appeal of the bra in its undoing. One could write a
whole erotica on zippers, buttons, hooks, ribbons and laces. And there is a whole array of refined, nearly
concealed tricks of seduction, from unawares letting glide a ribbon over
the shoulder, over leaving one or more buttons undone or a zipper open,
to leaving the collar unbuttoned to show some chest, and what have you.
Such seeming dishevelment betrays an overall readiness or helps to
conjure it up.
However much al these refinements may stir the erotic eye, nothing
compares to the beauty of its nude when finally uncovered.
(6) CLOTHES AND THE ECLIPSE
OF THE NUDE
‘L’homme nu est un mollusque’
Lacan.
Although clothing is a sophisticated method of seduction, it often
serves the opposite goal of creating deceit, by suggesting that there is
something more or better than what actually exists. Worse still,
clothing can even compensate for, or mask an inability - if not an
unconscious unwillingness - of the body to display itself in the nude.
In fact, garments can be disposed of at will, whereas a genuine
willingness arises only where there is a reciprocal attraction and a
readiness to engage in a more encompassing relationship. Erotic attire
may only advertise an apparent readiness, as opposed to a complete
willingness. This attitude is quite common under the regime of
differential beauty, where many a beauty flaunts her appeal, without
being prepared to disappear in the marital bed, let alone the childbed.
Such purely exhibitionistic attitude is epitomised in the model with
whom an increasing number of women identify themselves. The model
specialises in displaying her body before a host of admirers,
whose very number structurally prevents them from ever gaining access to
her body. Inevitably, the staging of seduction is transformed into a
mere performance of exhibitionism on the catwalk.
Even accomplished stripping may be diverted from its true destiny. This
occurs when it becomes a mere substitute for complete seduction by the
eventually denudated body. In granting the nude, stripping withholds
intercourse. Unveiling - and solely unveiling - has become the crux of
its pleasure, and the spell is broken when the last veil has fallen.
This attitude is quite common in every day life - on beaches and at
parties - but it comes to its apogee in staged performances such as the
belly dance and the strip tease, not to mention photographic images of a
nude. Just as in the performance of the model on the catwalk, the
performance of the stripper is doomed to be reduced to mere
exhibitionism. This is evident in the highly ritualised, theatrical
quality of the performance in which touching - and in classic striptease:
showing the genitalia - is excluded.
Thus, voyeurism and exhibitionism are further isolated from the tactile
and genital sequel of visual seduction. Their increasing autonomy finds
its counterpart in the gradual shift form body to clothes. Not for
nothing does many a man prefer a half-clad body or a body in full
erotic attire - it might utterly fail when it finally surrenders.
Genuine display as the expression of an unlimited willingness to
surrender, may be just as rare as a perfect body.
No wonder that it is often proclaimed that erotic appeal derives not from
the body, but from the body clad or from its unveiling. The contention
is only justified when the nude is not able or prepared to hold its
promise. We cannot escape the impression that the emphasis on the
envelope is merely a new manifestation of the age-old contempt for the
body: from Tertullianus' 'templum aedificatum super cloacam’, over
Baudelaire's make-up, Merleau-Ponty's 'chair', Clark's 'sack of
potatoes' to Lacan's body as a mollusc.
That does not prevent that matters can be looked at more positively.
Clothes maintain the illusion that it is they that make the man or the
woman. In expectance of a generalised genetic manipulation of bodily
beauty - they may thus serve the egalitarian purpose (Alain). They help
to flatten the differences in beauty and help to tip the balance in
favour of the lesser beauties, as in the story of Cinderella - even when
this fairy-tale learns that real beauty will always win at last.....
Chapter VI of 'The erotic eye and its nude'

objet de désir 1
see also:
'the ecstasies of eros'
CLOTHES AND THE METAMORPHOSIS OF THE EROTIC APPEARANCE
(1) DIVERSIFICATION OF THE EROTIC APPEARANCE
'J'aime le souvenir de ces époques nues''
Baudelaire, Les Fleurs du mal,Correspondances,V.
Dress not only widens the repertoire of concealing and revealing, it
also changes the overall appearance of the erotic appearance itself.
Draped clothes synthesise the body into one whole, from which only the
head and the arms protrude. Tailored clothing shows all the separate
parts, although a skirt might synthesise the thighs and the legs into
one single whole. The cut may change the shape
of the parts: trousers and sleeves, shirts and jackets may be wide or
tight-cut. The cut has also its impact on the mutual relation of the
parts: the girdle may be under the breast, over the middle or over the
thighs. Just like a close-up, clothes draw the attention on different
parts of the body. So does men exchange his natural appearance with an
increasing diversity of often totally opposed profiles. It suffices to
have the typical silhouettes from diverse places and different periods
pass the review, to become aware of that phenomenon.
That goes not only for the shape of the body, but equally for its
movements. The movements of the body are totally different when it is
clothed in draped or tailored clothing, a tight-fitting dress or
trousers, wearing high heels (or having bound feet) or slippers. An
attribute like a plume or a cigarette mouthpiece drastically changes the overall
attitude and dictates new movements (P. Schilder).
Precisely because clothes tend to confine the natural agility of the
body, their removal often leads to an outburst of energy: the liberated
body frolics around or stretches its limbs triumphantly.
(2) THE HERMAPHRODITE BODY
(4): TRANSVESTISM
There is a natural ‘transsexuality’ in the sense that characteristics
which, in a given culture, are supposed to be male or female, tend to be
rather randomly distributed over genetically male of female beings. Far
from harming the appeal of the body, such natural ambivalence often only
heightens its charms. A rigid opposition
between male and female dress (and other means of adorning the body,
such as make-up and jewellery) helps to remove the ambivalence. An
impressive example is the strong opposition of male nudity and the
richly draped female body in ancient Greece.
Nowadays, we are still familiar with the opposition of trousers and
skirts. Up to the nineteenth century, the
opposition extended to underwear: women used to wear long smocks, and it
is only from the middle of the nineteenth century onward that
specialised underwear was introduced. Today, make-up is still a female
privilege, in strong contrast to the eighteenth century. There are
countless other examples …
Garments can also enhance the natural ambivalence. As women have always
known,
male garment only comes to enhance female attractiveness. This is all the more so when what seemed to be a man
turns out to be a woman. This leads to a
continuous reciprocal annexation of the privileges of the opposite sex.
Eventually, the surplus gained from the annexation dwindles: women
wearing trousers have become so common, that we no longer notice the
anomaly.
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